Day 3: Self-Love
When I was a child, I always tried to conform who I was as a person. I always thought I was too loud, too happy, too short, too fat, just too much of everything. Today, I embrace who I am as a person, but the journey is still a work in progress.
One thing I have noticed is that the insecurities I had growing up stayed with me as I became an adult….and eventually as a mother. Self-love in a world full of #peoplepleasers and #wanttobevalidated is hard because it is not common. Following the trend and the hype is the cool thing. So when you make decisions as a mom that are not popular, it can take a toil on your mind. So today, I want to challenge you to choose self-love and make the choice to be comfortable in being you, no matter how uncomfortable it may feel.
You know what? I have something fun for you to do today, repeat after me: “I AM BEAUTIFUL, WONDERFUL AND DESERVING OF SUCCESS”.. Did you say it? Did it feel weird? For most of us, this is the most positive thing that we have said to ourselves in a long time. It’s time that we stop the madness. Make the choice to say only positive things about yourself today. Today, I encourage you to follow a couple of tidbits that are written below:
When you catch yourself being negative, quickly shift your thinking. The simple exercise of making a choice to decide to be positive is all the difference you need to have a great day and increase your #self-love.
Do not question your ability as a mother and even as a woman in general. Be comfortable in all decisions that you make today for yourself and your family. Know that you have a worth beyond measure.
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